here's he deal ... i've watched this whole, growing fixation/fascination with "anal" for a while now ... and with all due respect to my gay guy friends (whose options are more limited), why - in god's name - would i want to stick my wonderful, one-and-only, beautiful (and protected) penis in ANYone's "shithole"?? i mean, i get the whole "to go where no man has gone before" thing, but shitholes are dirty and not a place i want to put my pee-hole ... maybe some one can 'splain it to me.